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anonymous
writes:hey,i met a guy one week ago,and he thought that i was hot,anyways,we started talking,and i got to know him better and he is so great,the thing missing is that he doesn't like serious relatonships,because of his past(he has been hurt before)he has only been in open relationships since.i want to be the girl that changes that for him..but how??i really like him,and i think he does too,but i want him to fall in love for me..help me please Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2008): To my mind an open relationship isn't a relationship at all. It's two people who hang out with and have sex together occasionally, but are free to hang out and have sex with any number of other people.
If that's the way he is, I doubt you'll be the one to change him. No woman ever will, simply because he himself will want to have to change his behaviour and the change will have to start from within his own mind.
Don't change yourself either to try to make him fall in love with you. The only thing you can do is to be yourself, without any false impressions that you may try to put forward. Be true to yourself and be honest. You may be different to any previous female friends of his and he may want an exclusive relationship with you once he gets to know you properly.
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