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30-35,
*lliehoff
writes:My best guy friend and I have known each other for over a year now, we're such close friends.We talk about everything. We always have soo much fun together.We've gotton drunk with each other acouple times, and have tried the whole "friends with benefits", didnt work out so well,and we've been working hard to get our friendship back to normal.We don't do anything physical with each other anymore, but he is always soo touchy feely and always tells me he cares about me. I think I have feelings for him deep deep down. And I'm thinking he might have some type of feelings for me. I want to know how to get him to like me, certain things I could do that he would notice and like. Play hard to get? I would like a males opinion but anyone please help. I would like somone to talk to.=]
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reader, TomWilkinson  +, writes (28 November 2007):
 hehe to be fair it's not her fault she thought you were only a kid, but I have to agree that the advice was somewhat poor, just hope mine in the mesages was better =P xx
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reader, Alliehoff +, writes (28 November 2007):
Alliehoff is verified as being by the original poster of the question wow.that did not help me at all. First off I would like to clarify that I am NOT under the age of 15,I am 18 and cannot find out how to change my age on here. Secondly,I thought people were supposed to help on here,not to be soo judgemental and jump to conclusions when you never asked me in the first place.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2007): My initial reaction is, why are you getting drunk with this boy when you are under the age of 15? Why are you having sex when you are under the age of 15? Where are your parents, if you need someone to talk to, try one of them! Do you have some problems at home, is this why you want to cling on to this boy who has been using you? Yes, he is using you, you have given him sex, all that boys this age think about is sex, it is their hormones...
You my dear are running the risk of not only getting hurt emotionally, but you may end up pregnant which will change your life and end your childhood. You are also at a much increased risk of contracting the HPV virus which causes cervical cancer.....google this, you will find all sorts of information about it. The fact that you are very young puts you at a high risk because you are sexually active, it doesn't mean you have to have multiple partners in order to get cervical cancer, it only takes one, it is the fact of your biology and your age that puts you there.
Think instead of just feel, that is why you need to put the brakes on here. Find something else to occupy your thoughts and time, like school for instance.
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reader, TomWilkinson +, writes (27 November 2007):
Well my initial thought is that if the "friends with benefits" thing didn't work, how would being in a relationship be successful?
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