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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:i met this guy around my working area, we started knowing each other as friends, i am 21 years old and he is 28. he works at bank and i work as a waitress. we had fun time being friends, but one day i stayed over at his house because i couldn't stay the summer heat, so he invited me to his house. we watched TV together, when we were about go to sleep, of course separate bed, but we had conversation before we went sleep, he said he liked me. i know he is the one who i cant never initiative tell i like him(i like this guy when we first met)because he is much older than me, beside he treated me like a kid. i would never dare to be his girlfriend although i like him so much. i was truly really happy when he said he want to be in relationship with me.but at the end we broke up so fast, only in three days, because he think i am a little kid, but i swear to god, i had never done anything being childish to him. he wanted to break up so we did, but we can still stay as friend. we kinda did, but i told him i will keep the feeling of liking him also i will move on and improve myself to be more mature.he stop treating me like we were friends before,everything changed. no texts no calls, i told myself that he just being busy caz he got promoted to new position(right after he dumped me)i had to stop thinking about him, caz i cant work. so i stop calling or text him for two weeks, but i think the time is long enough to cure us, so i called him again, he picked up, but didnt say alot to me. next weeks he brought another girl to my working place to eat, i was totally shocked and couldnt face him like usual. i called him after, but this time he would never pick up my call never reply my text, dont even look at me when he came to my working place. it broke my heart, please anyone help me, i just want to be his good friend like i made wish at first time i met him"i dont dare to be his girlfriend but please at least let me be his good friend" anyone help me get over this please, what should i do ?
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reader, johannabanana  +, writes (20 August 2010):
 You weren't over him. You should just simply smile at him when you see him and ask how the ladies are treating him. You need to act buddy buddy instead of hoping for a relationship he doesn't want to have with you. Stop telling yourself you will get mature for him and such. Don't try to sculpt yourself into something you think someone wants. Find someone that likes what you are now. This is why age difference is a problem. Stop going for the old people and enjoy the people of your youth.
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