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*ina newman
writes:my exhusband has not let me see our daughter in almost 5 years because of my past drug use i now have been clean and sober for 5 years what should i do and coull you show me some web sites on how this effects my daughter to not see her mom
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (30 August 2008):
I agree about going to court. Your husband may not trust you again, but he can't argue with lots of clean drug tests to prove you are fit and court approved access.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, SugarCookie +, writes (30 August 2008):
You have to go to court to get your rights to see her back. They will do a lot of drug tests on you and you will start out being watched with her. The thing is is that you dont say your daughter's age. If she is 12 or older she can refuse to see you and then there is nothing you can do.
Being a daughter of a mom that did drugs and then left my life because of it she will look at you like you are a bad person and it will take many years for her to trust you. Remember that your ex is more than likely told her when she asked why she couldn't see you it was because you were a drug addict.
My only advice is if you thought quiting drugs was hard it will be a hundred times harder to be in your daughters life again. You just have to tough it out.
I dont have anything to do with my mother because now I am 19 and she has never stopped doing drugs. You have a better chance at a relationship because you have stopped.
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