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male
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hey all, well here is my problem. At uni last year I met one of the most attractive girls I have ever seen. At first I was a bit shy to talk to her but she spoke to me one day and we got on great. We ended up working as lab partners for the whole year and spent a lot of time together. As time went on I thought to myself that she could be the one for me but I never had the nerve to ask her out sadly.So over the last few months we havn't seen each other because she lives in another city. Everyday and night I think about her and regret not asking her out before. The other week she was telling me that a guy asked her out on a date and she complied and they went for a few drinks together. She said that he was a very nice guy and enjoyed her night. But she has never seen him again. Another thing was that she said to me that she could never date someone who doesn't drink. I do drink but I don't get myself in a state that the majority of students do haha. So I would be able to take her out clubbing etc. We have a mutual friend and I was talking to her last week about asking the girl out. She told me that the girl used to talk about me a lot and she thought that I liked her a lot too.Well anyway cutting a long story short, I think the reason I didn't ask her out before was because I wanted to do it right. I personally believe that you should start at least some kind of friendship before having a relationship with someone. So at least she knows what kind of person I am and I know what she is like. I have told her that we should meet up before uni starts again and have a good chat. So when we are doing this should I ask her out on a date and then after the date ask her if she would like to go out?
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