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writes:i have a good female friend.i often tell her about my problems etc. she thinks i fancy another girl. and i know for a fact she doesn't fancy me.i want to go with her to cinema just as mates nothin else.how can i ask her without her makin excuses? i think she's worried what people will think if were seen together etc.all advice welcome thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (22 May 2007):
 Dude, it is RARE that friends turn into lovers. Your best bet is to meet NEW girls, and turn them into your girlfriends. The only time Friends can turn into lovers is when there is ALREADY some attraction from her to you...again, hard to do when she sees you as a friend.
-FBK
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2007): thanks for your reply. and i understand your point. but the question than arises for me "is there a girl out there who values and wants to take our friendship further?"
i need a specific reason as for why i want to go cinema with her because i have lots of friends
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reader, Frank B Kermit +, writes (18 May 2007):
I think you do not have a real friendship with her if you can to work so hard to ask her to hang out. Maybe it is not what everyone else thinks that is bugging her. Maybe she thinks that you like her.
What I can not understand is why you would rather hang out with a girl that is just a friend, when you could use that time to be in the company of a girl that could actually offer you more than a friendship?
Something to consider...
-FBK
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