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writes:there is a girl for whom i have fallen for but the problem is she is an introvert.....we have been good friends since 3 months but still i cant reach her....she never talks about her secrets or her life...its just me making her talk.....when i told her about my feelings she didn't responded with an answer.....she is still a friend of mine and after that i never initiated this topic and nor did she.....so what should i do to come close to her....please help me Reply to this Question
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reader, prime05 +, writes (7 June 2010):
prime05 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks a lot Samantha.....you really helped me out..
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2010): If she is very shy she may need more time to open up to you. You have been friends for three months, but for some people they need to know a person for longer before they open up. The best advice I can give is to just continue being a good friend to her, and try not to take it personally if she doesn't talk much about herself. It may just be the way she is. I think it would also be best to not put any pressure on her to talk about her life or secrets. If she is not comfortable talking about personal things, it is best to avoid trying to get her to tell you about them.
As for her not responding when you told her how you feel, again, she may feel that it is too soon. She might need to get to know you better. I think that as long as things are generally okay between you, then just carry on as you are. Enjoy being friends, and try not to rush anything. She may start to open us to you more in time. I hope this helps, good luck. x
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