| A
female
,
anonymous
writes: I am a very confused girl. I have just come out of a year long sexual relationship with my best friend who is also a girl. I would never consider myself gay or bi although during the past year have also slept with several men. I ended it with my friend as i felt it was getting out of control and she was becoming part of the whole gay 'scene' which im not into at all. I dont have a problem with gay people but i do have a problem with being associated with the gay scene and even thoguh i loved or love my friend i ended it. I just want the fairytale husband, wedding and kids. Now my friendships over. what should i do?
View related questions:
best friend, lesbian, wedding Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, smeedle  +, writes (9 February 2006):
 You want it all and why not, there is no shame in being bi-sexual, lots of people are, and there is no point in worrying about it, you had a relationship with a woman and now you want one with a man, you feel you men are the future and marriage is the ultimate so dont worry, just have a relationship with a bloke and take it from there, you will know what feels better and more right for you.
Note of caution would be if you were to marry, have kids then decide you preffered women, that would definatly put a strain on things, so go out have safe fun and dont worry about the gender of the partner, as long as you have safe sex all is fine.
A
male
reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2006): Although it is difficult at this point in time... your feelings for your friend will change. It is my belief that you fell for your friend.. as a friend. When we become close to our friends, we develop bonds and I think that this is the bond that confused you. It is now your chance to start looking for what you want, a man who can become your best friend, lover and hopefully husband! Try not to let a strong friendship confuse you.
...............................
|
