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writes: Help! There's this guy in school and i really like him. He's funny and he always makes me laugh,plus he's cute and he's multi-talented. The other day, when we were introduced, we hung out somewhere with some other friends and he was playing the guitar and we were singing. When our friends had to go, the 2 of us were left and he told me to sit next to him and we sat real close to each other. The next thing i knew, he was holding my hand, playing with my hair, etc... he even laid on my lap and put his arms around my waist. I kinda didn't do anything coz i was sorta shocked, or something. He even asked me to hug him.Today, when i saw him in school, he came up to me and wrapped his arm around my neck and asked me for a kiss and he made it sound like he was kidding, but half serious. He text messaged me when i got home and his messages kinda gave me the impression that he wanted to have sex.I don't know what to do! We just met and, though we haven't been in good terms for these past few days, i have a boyfriend!
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reader, melody +, writes (9 February 2006):
personally i think hes just after sex forget him if hes already talking about sex hes just going to end up hurting you forget him and find someone who will appreciate you!
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (9 February 2006):
 Best not have sex, you just are not ready for that yet, but he sounds like fun and my bet is that he would make a good boyfriend, you seem to have a conection with him and him with you, just check him out a bit longer to make sure he is not just flirting and that he does want a relationship not just a bit of fun.
You also need to sort out the relationship you are in, if you want this new bloke then finish with your current one first, to not do this would be wrong and you could get a bad reputation for two timing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2006): It may well be that this young chap does like you. However, when it comes down to it, you have not been together long enough to start discussing sex. Not only that, you already have a boyfriend. You must decide if you still want to be seeing your current boyfriend. Then if you don't, then maybe ask the guitar player to take you out so that you can get to know each other. Sex is something that should only happen when two people know and love each other... Make him work for it!
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