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writes: I have this ex boyfriend that i am still in love with... but he has a girlfriend. He tells me now and then that he still likes me and that he will give me another chance when him and his girlfriend breakup And now im thinking.. ok i have to get over him and move on and when i am almost over him... he says something that makes me fall for him all over again. His girlfriend goes to a different school than me and him so in the hallway he always nudges me or in the one class we have together he throws little parpers to get my attention then he just smiles sweetly. So my question is... how do i get over this guy i love?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2006): "He tells me ... he will give me another chance when him and his girlfriend breakup"
"when i am almost over him... he says something that makes me fall for him all over again."
nerrr-nerrr-nerrr... That should be your warning system telling you this guy doesn't want to be with you and that you are being played as second best.
On to your question: "how do i get over this guy i love?"
Make a decision in your head that it is over. Once you have made that decision, break contact with this guy and have nothing more to do with him.
You are in what is a cycle of abuse. You need to break this cycle, because if you don't, he will.. eventually, and it'll be a whole lot to get over than it is now.
If it helps you get over him, why not concentrate on thinking of him with someone else, and the seeming conclusion that he doesn't actually love you?
Look forward to being over him, and the fact you'll meet someone who will see you as number 1 in their life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2006): He says he'll give u a second chance when he breaks up with his girlfriend? So you are his second choice? I wouldnt want to be anyones second choice personally. How could that possibly bloom into real love? I think he's saying that because although he feels he can date someone, he doesnt want you to date anyone, and so is giving you this BS reason to stick around for him. What a LOSER! Why would you wanna be with this guy? There are loads of NICE guys out there! Ditch this creep!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2006): u need 2 ask urself if he reli is worth all this and if u reli want 2 get over him or not. if not then put on sum tight jeans and make him come and take u back. if u r sure u want rid then go hav some fun and find sum1 else and gradually ull 4get about him
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