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writes:okay so hi, my boyfriend and i have been dating for like 4 months now, we are in our teens. anyway, we love each other very much, i wanted to ask if it would be wrong to let him touch my breasts and not just like on top of the shirt, actually inside my bra ???
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2016): I think it really depends on you and how mature you are. Would you be able to stop him from going farther if he tried?Can you talk to your mom about this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2016): I advise against this. If it escalates into "something more" then it could be illegal. I feel like at a young age (13-15 years old) your hormones are beyond out of wack, so don't let your body think for you.
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reader, ellsie96  +, writes (3 January 2016):
 How old are you? The info says 13-15, if you're 13 I think you may be a bit too young!
I didn't do this with any boy until I was 16, which was okay, but at 13 I think you are vulnerable to be manipulated.
Much like the anonymous writer posted, he may also be immature and spread this around about you if it does happen.
4 months may feel like a long time but in reality it's not, especially at your age when you're trying out things with your boyfriend for the first time.
I would wait and if he stays with you for a longer period of time without pressurising you to let him touch you, and when you can trust him to keep what happens between you private, then feel comfortable to do so.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2016): Oh my goodness...young love. You should not and let me tell you why. Boys love to brag and also lie somewhat about what they do with girls. It is like in their D.N.A. They just cannot help it. Would you be O.K. with the whole school and everyone you know knowing about this? How would you feel if the next guy you date only went out with you because your ex bragged about how far he got with you? Save yourself until you are older. Someone once told me please do not grow up to fast because you can never get your youth back. When I was young I never understood fully what that meant..but being older I do now. 4 months is also a very short time...now maybe if you were with him like 4 years I might say something different. You really do not know what love really is yet.If he begs you for this he is not the one for a real man would respect you. Please do not do this and please wait.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2016): Hey! Don't worry it's not weird. You say you love each other very much, so he wouldn't be creeped out at all. Maybe put his hands there for him or something but don't overthink this. He might want to touch you there you never know.
Or you could just talk to him and ask him what he wants out of this and then tell him what you want and I'm sure he will understand. If he says no (which is unlikely) then just shake it off because if he really loves you, he won't make you feel embarrassed, but you have to remember, if you really loved him, you should respect his decision if he decides not too. If he's not comfortable doing it then you need to be okay with that and not rush him
Good luck!
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