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writes:I really want my new boyfriend to cum in me. I'm not back on birth control, but the way i feel is if we have a baby, then htat's God's plan. If we don't that's even better! I just don't know how to get him to loosen up since he already has a kid and isn't quite ready for another just yet. Any sugestions? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2009): YES. Go on the pill and until you've been on it long enough for it to take effect, let him wear a condom.
And p l e e a se - take responsibility for your own life! If you were to get pregnant (I hope you will see to it that you don't!) do not blame God by saying it is God's will.......sheesh.
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (20 April 2009):
 If he does not want another child then you cannot force him into this, he is your boyfriend therefore you should respect his wishes just as he should respect yours.
While you may be ok with having a child, you are still too young and probably not financially secure enough to support a baby. He already has one child to support and I imagine he wont have the time of financial resources to support another at the moment.
Just wait a few more years so that you are both ready and fully committed to having a child! In the mean time, go back on birth control and use condoms so you dont get any STI's!
I hope this helps!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2009): You have answered your own question he does not want another child.
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reader, pebble +, writes (20 April 2009):
 God's plan?How immature is that?! If you do not use birth control, you WILL become pregnant, God has no hand in it. It will be your fault, no one elses. That just like saying "I'm not going to wear a seatbelt because if we have a crash and die that will be God's plan".You cannot go your entire life just letting things happen to you. You have control of your own future. If you don't want a child then do something about it! And if your partner doesn't want another child then you have to have respect for that. I'm sorry but I feel compelled to tell you that that comment was extremely irresponsible and immature and you need to grow up.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2009): i don't blame him for not loosening up, he doesn't want to have a kid, and you shouldn't trick him into having a kid together unless you both discuss it like adults and agree you want one. it's not god's plan. god has nothing to do with it. it is you being impulsive and selfish and manipulative by wanting your bf to impregnate you without thinking it through or being honest about it. don't do something stupid.
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