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30-35,
*onfusedx-x
writes:hiya.. right i really like this boy,lets call him Ryan. Its abit confusing this whole thing. Ryan asked one of his mates for my numbrer acoiple of weeks ago and then he started texting me and added me on facecbook and stuff. So we have started to talk quite alot now, and he's being quite flirty with me, yesterday he asked me if i wanted to come to town with him and his mate in our frees at college so i said yeah why not and we went to town. It was so nice just spending the afternoon with him. Then after awhile we got abit bored so we headed back to college and chilled in the canteen for a while with one of my mates. It was really nice and i felt comfortable around him. However when me and *Ryan had started texting eachother a girl in one of my lessons had told me to be careful because 'he's a playere' but i really don't believe that he is, the way he is with me does not show a player so i jst thought he should know what she had said, but to be honest i don't think he liked it and said he was fed up with girls now and that maybe he just shouldnt get involved with anyone because then no one can say anything to him, but since last night he has been ignoring my texts and won't talk to me or anything. I want him to know how much i like him,( he has an idea of how much) but i don't know how to show him, I don't want him to think that he's a bad person if u understand me??Please help i don't want to loose him, there might be something between us :Sxxxx
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reader, Fionaisme  +, writes (17 April 2008):
 the only way you will find out is to let him text you if he wants. You sent the last message and now its up to him. I would keep things going very slowly because you dont want to jump right in there and if he is a player you will end up hurt. Im going through something similar myself and hope things improve. Hope ive helped you.
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reader, salvation +, writes (17 April 2008):
i think next chance you get talk to him and tell him how you feel. He might be a player but there is no way to know unless you hang out with him for a while and see what he is like with other girls then you will get an idea of his character. Best of luck.
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