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26-29,
*rissyA
writes:So i have liked this guy since grade 5 (Im grade 9 now) hes in grade 10! he goes to the big high school and i go to the little christian school! i realized on a trip to the mountains to go snowboarding i fell in love with him.On the 10 minute lift he put his arm around me and tried to show off with me there on jumps! some of my friends think he likes me and some dont! he acts so flirty and exclusive with me... even around other ppl. We spent 3 hours one night talking and listening to his ipod and sitting really close! I was in heavan. Everyone came over and told us how close we were sitting. We got really personal and joked about sex and whatever. It was so fun! then 3 days later we were at dinner with my friends for my bff's going away party! he physically shoved his sister aside to sit by me.but then my friend started txting him about me... then told me he was "having his fun with me" and would tell me when he got a gf! that sounds like a really douchey thing to do right? well it doesnt sound like something hed say! plus my friend has a history of lying... and all my friends said he said i was cool and he only says that about girls he likes. He showed up at my church yesterday and came over but i turned and talked to someone else plus he turned around during the service and we had 5 second eye contact then i looked away. We were talking on fb and he said hes not mad at me and i explained to him what my issue was. he never got back to me yet tho. I was researching first kisses and kissing techniques cuz we imma be 15 this year and havent had my first kiss! i want to kiss him very badSo basically my question is, is he interested, should i kiss him, what should i do about my emotions that get in the way of my love for him and what should i do abotu my lying friend that seems to ruin everything with my guys and friends? sorry for the length but i have never found a site this good with questions about life. HELP!
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reader, anniibabii  +, writes (30 March 2010):
Well, I think that you should just give it everything you've got and kiss him while he's still single. If you love him that much you will make the first move.
I think he is interested because his body language towards you is very cheeky and flirty. This is a sign that he likes you.
As for your emotions 'getting in the way', i think you should just learn to overcome them and try to see the real situation. Always try your hardest if you love someone, and show him that you really do feel passionate about him.
Your so-called 'friend' should be taught a lesson. In my opinion she is not worth all the hassle and stress, so just tell her that you dont think its a good idea to stay friends. She is not your real friend if she does things like that to you behind your back, and if she has a history of lying, then definitely dont believe her. She could possibly just be jealous or even like this boy, and she might want him for herself so she is trying to make you look bad.
Hope things turn out alright for you
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