A
female
age
36-40,
*hoclate
writes: me and my lover do not have understanding so i want a way we both can develop understanding.he loves me alot but he do not trust me that much.i love him alot and i am v sincere.plz i want he should get crazy in my love but i dont know how to dmop that Reply to this Question Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2008): I suggest the two of you need to COMMUNICATE your needs and wants to each other; through communication you will get to know each other better and learn to understand each other more;
Misunderstandings are often the reslut of LACK OF COMMUNICATION;
You CANNOT read each others minds; you need to communicate your FEELINGS to each other;
The best advice I can give you is to communicate;
REMEMBER
that means expressing your feelings, needs, wants
BUT
very important; LISTEN to him; take note of what he is saying and of his needs; wants; feelings;
With good communication; you will learn how to have a more satisfactory relationship and how you can improve the quality of your relationship.
Good luck; best wishes and lots of SMILES
|