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writes: Right, I met this lad. we will call him lad a. me n lad a went out for a while till i found out he had a gf. we split up but then got back together till i slept with some other lad. We then split up again but then got back together. then we were both going on holiday n he broke up with me. But now i realise i love him so much! I think about him 24/7! he says he thinks bout me too and if we r both out we always end up kissin! im so confused as we both moved on now. but he says he loves me n i love him back! But we both have different people now. he says hes falling for his new gf but im not feeling much for my new bf. what shall i do?
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reader, camille  +, writes (29 August 2006):
 How can there ever be any trust ? You started seeing him and he already had a girlfriend. You got back together and you slept with someone else. Sorry to be blunt but you both sound like you've acted in a very selfish immature way. I wouldn't trust either of you with anyone. You sound well suited (that's not a compliment), but I doubt this is love. Maybe you just want what you can't have? The fact he's "falling for" his new girlfriend yet you're not feeling that way with the boy you're with is making you want him. Leave him be, he's with someone else. If he comes crawling back, don't kiss him (or sleep with him), he's using you. No offence but if you keep this up you'll have a bad reputaion and possibly an infection. If he really loved you, why isn't he with you?
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