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writes:I have this woman who's been a long time friend, although we have not been very close. I became sexually attracted to her since the day she tried to have sex with me. At that time I was young and dumb and didn't realize what was on her mind. For 1 reason or another we never connected other then being friends. I saw her last week and she told me she was moving away. I asked her to have lunch with me before she moves and she readily agreed. She has never been married and seldom had a boyfriend. I want to seduce her before I never have that chance ever again. How should I approch her for sex without making her uncomfortable. The last thing I want to do is cause her to feel uneasy. Reply to this Question
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reader, chlez83  +, writes (26 November 2007):
You'll be one of the luckiest men on earth if she'd gladly and quickly jump in bed with you.I'm just wondering whether you are married or not,looking at the age on your profile.I'm a bit confused.Anyway if you are not she could've been waiting for you to marry her.It's best she's the one who tries it first.You may end up destroying your friendship.Time changes things.Don't live in the past so much.You have no idea what she feels like now,sexually.
All the best.
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reader, muffy +, writes (26 November 2007):
 just ask her.if she wants to then she will.its that simple.i hope i helpedlove and kisses
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2007): I'd say you were already virtually home and dry on this one. Remind her of the time she tried to have sex with you and ask her if the offer is still open. But gently hold her hand across the dinner table when you say it.
Whatever her response is you'll know whether she's still up for it or not.
Best of luck!
Phil
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2007): ok
you need to chill out...i mean pretty much every guy wants to have sex but imagine how you will feel after it. You have sex, she moves, its over...you both move on and bam! and then what happens if you make her feel uneasy? She wont want to be great friends anymore. It sucks when you screw up a great friendship..i should know...talk to her about it.
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reader, love-him  +, writes (25 November 2007):
 Hey, take her out for a meal and see where that leaves you. Make sure she wants it too. I hope i helped, Feel free to mail me aout anything x
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