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writes: hello i need advice me and my bf of six years broke up about six months ago he left me and moved out we have a 3 year old daughter together he said he just needed time i do admit i was mean i always told him i didnt need him and i wish he would leave i would put him out all the time at all types of the hour i know i was wrong but he did things to i was working and he wasnt i was takeing care of all the bills i told him i would as long as he was looking and helped watch the baby while i worked he didnt do it so i verbally abused him he always told me he loved me and all he had was me and i think i took advantage of that cause i knew he would never leave well thats what i thought i really did love him but i didnt know how to show it i tell him i changed and i wont do it but i get jelous very easy if people tell me they seen him talking to a girl i call him and curse him out i want to change he never gave me a reason that he cheated.we are no longer together but i tell him if he wants to get back with me he better not think about sleeping with someone just the thought of it makes me sick am i wrong for being this way he has a right to talk to whom ever he wants were not a couple but he still tells me hes not seeing anyone but i think about it constantly is there any help for us plz needs advice urgently
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reader, Ainley +, writes (14 May 2006):
 wow ok you dont make it easy do you, this isnt easy saying this but for the sake of your child i think you two are better off apart. sometimes it s better to cut your losses because you clearly bring out the worst in eachother. but if you two both do want eachother back then i seriously suggest counselling for you both before you make that leap. it seems to me your afraid of opening up for fear of rejection or looking silly (same here) so you let it build up until it comes out into a pile of mess. if you really want if back get counselling, and swallow your pride and tell him how you feel. good luck hope this has helped.
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