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I use lust to advance and get what I want but some can't tolerate it

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Question - (29 June 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 29 June 2007)
A male age 41-50, anonymous writes:

It seems that lust is something that motivates me or i use to my advantage in getting more out of my life in terms of workplace progress and well being in general. Somehow, some people are not comfortable with this kind of behavior, no matter how politically correct it may be. They find the feeling behind the act to be disturbing and a threat to their own social and economic well-being. What they don't understand or accept is that i have complete control over my lust factor and i do not need to be controlled by others for the same. I know my boundaries and limitations. But how do i make them understand as trust is something that is often been broken / misused to the benefit of the abuser / manipulator / exploiter. And i find this existence as a human being to be pretty insecure, dark, gloomy, miserable and discomfortable. How do i accept to tolerate discomforts that come along in the process of getting comforts that are required to live a not so bad life?

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A male reader, leonard j.Douglas Philippines +, writes (29 June 2007):

There's nothing wrong with lust as long as it is within the range of social acceptability. There is such a thing as mutual-abuse. Where we use each other for the overall benefit of our Family, our marriage, and also within our employer,and employee relationships. Lust used as "POWER OVER OTHER'S" is a form of Mental-Sickness,no matter how this Lust is used You don't seem to have a very happy life, Perhaps, You are using you Lust in an inappropriate way.

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