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I turned from a nice to a negative person. How can I change back to being nice?

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Question - (18 April 2009) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

This isnt a relationship question but i was hoping for some advice.

Im 25.

I have always been a nice down to earth person but i've noticed some changes in myself recently that i dont like. Im getting very vain and bitchy and materialistic.

When i was at school my friends always got more attention than me...i was somewhat awkward and plain. As i got older i stared experimenting with hair and makeup,clothes and now am quite attractive-this may have something to do with being vain..i dont know.

Before i always used to see the best in people and was a positive person but now i just bitch about everything...to someones hair, their weight......their job etc....i dont know why i do it.

Also i like designer bags,shoes,jewellery-purchase them myself and am not in debt but i alwyas feel i "need" these things to make myself feel better about who i am and to show off.

Im not a teenager so i cant blame my age etc...I just need to know if others are like this and will my attitud change? I have tried but nasty thoughts just enter my head and i dont keep them to myself.

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