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*oonstruck30
writes: I recently made my boyfriend angry and he walked out on me. i have tried to apologise in various ways but he has switched off his phone for the last three days and i cannot reach him. i am stumped. should i just assume it's over and move on with my life, find more ways to apologise or i need to give him time to calm down. what i did by the way was ask him some questions that sounded like i'm trying to prove he doesn't really care about me. thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2006): Personally, I think your boyfriend over-reacted.There is a possibility that he was trying to end things with you for some time and chose this childish way to do it rather than be honset with you face to face. Yes do move on, I would not wait for someone behaving like that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2006): If you have already tried more than once to apologize and he refuses to listen, you have no choice but to leave it alone, not think up more ways to get him to talk to you.
You said you were trying to get him to prove he does not really care about you, and it sounds as though you succeeded, unfortunately.
Assume its over and get on with your life - UNLESS he contacts you, and then if he does, I'd recommend you listen very carefully to what he gives as his reason for not accepting your apology previously before you entertain any thought of getting back with him!
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