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30-35,
*essaboo
writes:ok i was with a guy for almost 3 years then i found out he was cheatin on me with his bestfriends sister after he asked me to marry him now im curently wit a girl and i love her so much i never thought i would give my curious thoughts a chance now we have been together for 5 months and when she asked me to be with her she was with someone already for 4 years on and off and i told her (because we were bestfriends before we ever thought bout getting together) i told her i kno all the stuff that girl puts u through and i knew her girlsfriend was cheatin on her so i told her noone deserves to be cheated on and i would never cheat with someone so if u are really serious about tryin to be with me u must break up with her and she said ok that same day she told me her feelings she broke up with the other girl and we got together do u think she will do the same to me with that same girl or any others??? shes tells me i make her soo happy but how do i kno?? i mean i kno shes wonderful and i treat her soo good i mean thats always been a problem for me i have always treated people really good and put up with so much do u think she would cheat on me too??
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reader, nessaboo +, writes (13 March 2008):
nessaboo is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyour both very right i am scared bout this happenin i guess im jus preparing myself so thats y i keep think it and its true the more u do for anyone the more they screw u in the end. i guess i need to have more faith if arent meant to be together then we will end up breakin up one way or another thanks u guys:)
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reader, starfairy  +, writes (11 March 2008):
 Sorry if this seems harsh, but if you act like a doormat, and are insecure and needy, and paranoid someone is going to cheat on you, it's generally human nature to take advantage of someone like that, because that person knows they wuill get away with it.
It sounds like you EXPECT to be cheated on, you are just waiting for it to happen.
Get some strength, learn to be good to partners without going overboard. People like a challenge to keep them interested. Confidence is a very attractive trait, not insecurity and clingyness.
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