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I told my boyfriend I didn't feel the spark I used to. I said it to scare him, but it's gone wrong. How can I fix this?

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Question - (3 August 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 5 August 2008)
A female Åland Islands age 36-40, *iss williamz writes:

Hey people i truly need ur help. I have messed my relationship. Well today i did tell my boyfriend that i no longer feel the spark i used to feel but i still love him. I didnt tell him my reason behind it. Well my issue is this my boyfriend he is in campus studying he doesnt buy any gift, doesnt call me much until i do call him. All he knows how to say is bayb am broke then i just send him money. Now i dont want to lose him. I told him that only to scare him but he has taken it badly.help me please to straighten this mess i have got myself into. I dont even want to give him my reason i just want to straighten this up.please advice .me

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2008):

i think you should tell him the truth.

that sometimes u feel unwanted and like he doesnt u dont commit.

and u just said that to see what he would do. but more u dont mean it and just want him to be more commited.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2008):

you HAVE to tell him the reasons, how do you expect to have a serious relationship if you arent honest with each other?

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A male reader, Uw Ethiopia +, writes (3 August 2008):

He is just trying to punish u. from what u wrote u soud like the perfect girlfriend and i think u need to take it easy on ur self. He will come arround just give him time.

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