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writes:Hi there. I have a typical teenage trauma for you. Ok im 16 and for the last year or so I have been taking to this guy, mainly through text and msn, but I have met him, although this is difficult as hes a weekly boarder. I always thought he showed some interest in me, but I was never so keen until recently. On the 17th of December I was texting him and guessing who he liked. He said I knew them, and as we are at different schools and dont know the others friends I was pretty sure he was talking about me, and sure enough a few texts later he told me. He then went on to say he felt like a idiot for telling me and he would stop it (making moves towards me). I told him I would prefer it if he didnt. Anyway over the xmas holidays we talked a lot, and he got me some expensive perfume for xmas, which realy surprised me :) Every night we would stay on msn till around 3am talking to each other (I know, sad! But I have no credit..) and he even crept into his mums room to get his laptop back one night. Now why would he do that if he didnt like me? Anyway last night we were playing 'Truth' and he asked me who I liked. And I just said 'Isn't it obvious?' and he said 'No, want me to guess?' and me being the blunt person I am just said 'No need, I like you.' I regret that so much. I have never ever confessed feelings for anyone. He said 'Well I think we will definatly have to go into town now.' What does that mean?? Should I have just kept quiet...?? Maybe hes just a player.. but im sorry giving me perfume and staying up to chat to me is kinda giving me the wrong hint here. Now hes left to go back to school for the week and I miss him. I dont have credit either. Oh if it helps he said he liked me to one of my friends in september.. I just dont know. Hes always texting me but maybe he sees me as a friend.. but then hes quite flirty. Omg I just dont know. Should I have said I liked him?? I just thought dragging it out over weeks was pointless. Any ideas where to go from here? Thanks x
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reader, Dee2707 +, writes (5 January 2009):
 Hi :) There is absolutely nothing wrong with revealing how you feel about this lad. From reading what you have written it seems to me there could be something developing through your friendship. Your right spending expensive perfume on a girl for xmas could just be a nice gesture, but the other signs he is giving off seem to suggest perhaps there is more to it. My suggestion is that you ask him how he feels about you, this will put a stop to your confusion and frustration. You've already told him that you like him, finding out how he feels could be the next step. Dont be ashamed, embarrased or worried about his reaction. It will be better than not knowing anything and wondering 'What if' in the future. Good Luck. I hope ive Helped. Dee :)
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