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writes: Well, I meet a lady about a year and a 1/2 ago. We fall in love . Thinks were kind of shaky and to make a long story short, We stoped seeing each other for about 5 months. We had no contact for that time, and one day she calls and asks what I've been up to ! Again, not draging this out. We told each other that we both still have strong feelings for one another, That we do ! Well, we are back together. Living as one and wanting to be married soon. Whats is eating a hole in my ass is. In the time we were apart, She asked me if I had sex with anyone. I told her the truth, yes I have! and how many times and with who I've been with. I then ask her the same thing.She said, NO ! You were the last person I've had sex with. So , I had a hard time swallowing it,but she said we should never lie to each other and we both agreed. Well, over the past few months I have meet a lot of the people she was running with and have got to know a few of they pretty well. And talking over the time sent's we got back together, I have talked to a few of her friends about any one she might have seen, or if they thought she has had sex with. And all of them told me of 3 guys they know very well, and she has been to bed with each one of them . One she was staying with for 4 months. And another guy, she was seeing for two weeks and people said its known to they all she was having sex . They have heard them in there bed room, She's is very verbal when making love. I have told her what I have been told in some detale and she said its all lie's . I do not cars if she did or didn't have sex with these guys.We were not together at the time. But, I know she's lieing to me about it. If we are not to lie to each other and we will not come clean about this. Then , do we even have a furture together? And why would she not be trueful with me about them after I was with her. What do I do????
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reader, ahotrod4u +, writes (5 September 2009):
ahotrod4u is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks, Gina I have Talked to her several times about telling me the truth about this matter. She gets mad and will not talk about it any more, saying I belive them and I think she's lieing to me." AND I DO"! Why, would that many people say what she said,isn't true? I try putting it behind me and let it go.But in the back of my mind, I wonder ? If she can't tell me the truth about that. Why would she ever? I've told her it does't matter if she did. We were not together at the time. Well, We have talked, fought and every thing eles about this and she is sticking to her guns. Our future isn't looking bright. And the sad part is I love this lady gal so much I would any thing for her and pretty much have. Rod.....
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