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writes:I've been having dreams about the girl I like, but usually they're all the same. We usually kiss or I cuddle with her but last night I had a dream about her like no other. In this dream she just plain flat out told me she loved me and wanted to be with me. Then we cuddled and then she ended up asking me to homecoming. I'm just wondering does this mean anything. Should I tell her how I feel about her. I mean she's been single for a long time now and I just really think we would be great together. She's beautiful and I just can't really stand not being with her. She's been one of my best friends for as long as I can remember. There's just two things keeping me from telling her. First I told her once before about 2 years ago and things really changed, I mean she treated me like crap all the time, but now she's more mature and we're great friends again. Second I worry she may be unfaithful in a relationship. She's been around before, if you know what I mean. I'm not a virgin either but I don't want to have sex with her right away and fear she may want it bad enough to go get from someone else. All advice is appreciated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2010): I think it is worth saying you would like to explore taking things to a different level. Tell her you can take it easy, see how things go, but you would definitely like to see if you could be more than friends.
As for her sleeping around, well if she is really into the intimacy you are feeling and building something special with you, then she won't go running around just for sexual gratification. You see the thing is with us girls, that if you have our full attention by the way you are treating us...paying attention to us, making us feel special, doing stuff with us we like to do, respecting us... well then we are in hook line & sinker... if the chemistry is right of course. Now that's the big question that only she can answer.
Go for it, but remember to tell her you want to take it slow, and then blow her mind with how fabulous you are.
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