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writes:Please i need help. There is a girl who is a close friend of mine,i told her that i loved her and wanted her to be my gf,but she said no. Later she told me she had gotten a bf,i felt bad but bcos i loved her i remained friends with her. But i always told her that i loved her,although she never gets angry with me. The pain was getting much so i told her to stop talking to me and visiting me. But then i told her to come one day, she said no but later accepted to come,she gave me a letter telling me that i am not honest,truthful,straightforward. That i loved her but was hiding it Frm her. That i should stop talking to her and visiting her that she has now found s/one she loves. I should stay away. Am i the cause of what happened and what should i do? Sorry for the long text.
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reader, Daewood +, writes (2 February 2009):
Daewood is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks for replying,i would take your advices and let her go. Even though it hurts,i dont know what the future holds.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2009): It's hard but you can't make someone love you. How you feel about her isn't how she feels about you. Think of a girl you feel little for and that gives you some kind of sense of how she feels for you.
She finds it hard not to hurt your feelings, no one wants to hurt anothers feelings. But by continuing a relationship, even a friendship prolongs your agony.
Break all contact and time will heal your pain. In time you will find someone new that can love you in return.
Sorry x
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reader, ArmyMedic  +, writes (2 February 2009):
 You are the problem, give her space!
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