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writes: hi i need some advice recently after i told a girl how i felt about her she said she liked me to but almost all of her freinds are now unhappy with her one of them likes me and is jelous and another one likes her and is no longer talking to her i know that it cant be easy for her at the moment i dont want to push her i really want a relationship with her but i dont want her to be outkast from her freinds please any advice is welcome
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reader, auntie claire +, writes (12 June 2006):
dear reader. all i can say to you is if you are you new g/f are happy then let them deal with their issues they'll either get over it or they weren't really friends to her in the first place if they don't want to see her happy (unless your treating her badly that is which i'm sure your not or you wouldn't be writting to us now would you?) the only advice i can give you on this one is make sure you make her happy with or wihtout her so called friends don't give them any amunition. i'm not saying turn her against her friends but if you treat her right their the ones with the problem and she can find plenty more "friends" that will back her all the way
All the best xxx
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reader, Jadzia1127 +, writes (10 June 2006):
If you want a relationship with her, you need to find out what it is about you that has her friends panties in such a twist.
When you do find out the info try to amend the situation. If you can't then you have to look at the big picture if you date this woman and isolate her from her friends she will come to blame you for it.
Relationships are hard enough without any opposition and almost impossible with opposition.
Good Luck!!
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