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I told her I didnt want to be with her anymore and now she is claiming to be pregnant and having miscarriages, is she faking and should I be worried?

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Question - (11 February 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 13 February 2010)
A male United States age 36-40, *rion writes:

so i had sex without a condom (dumb idea i know) anyways i never really was worried about her being pregnant but we had gotten in a fight the next day and she brought up the fact she was nervous about it. It was on my mind for about a week and we talked about it from time to time.

After a week i told her i really didnt want to be with her and then she said that she took three pregnancy tests and they were positive. I told her i wanted to see her take one and she was hesitant and said "Even if its negative it doesnt mean anything". well i tried to play it low key in case she was faking.

The next day she sends me a message saying she doesnt think she has cuz she started her period and a nurse said it looked like a miscarriage. i didnt believe that either.

Then she said she was nervous again cuz her period was "spotting".

The next day i break up with her and i was worried she would bring up this pregnancy thing again she said well "Im not 100% sure im not pregnant, you can have a full period and still be".

Basically her story is whack and she is on her period... should i worry cuz it still lingers in my mind i just want this to go away so i can finally move on with my life stress free.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2010):

Dude, it happened to me. i was breaking up with my g/f and she claimed to be prego. I got scared bought the test and came out negative which was great, but she tried to work things out so I said ok got her back but since then she was an animal wanting sex all the time and held me with her legs everytime to cum inside her I never thought she was planning on something till I found out a month later she was prego for real and now I'm stuck with her!! so be careful as she is gonna try to get prego as soon as she can thinking that she can keep you that way.. don't have sex with her no matter what!! we guys are weak when it comes to sex but don't do it if you really wanna move on!!!

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A male reader, Orion United States +, writes (12 February 2010):

Orion is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Also i would like to add new info she said she went to the doctor and they said it was either a miscarriage or she really was pregnant and her period is just prepping the baby. Idk what that means but thats what she said...

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (11 February 2010):

This sounds like a big lie to me. Wait it out and have as little contact as possible since she is an ex. If she is pregnant, it will soon become obvious. This does sound like a lie though.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2010):

Go with her to the doctor. Thats a safe way to find out for sure. Hear it from someone else than her.

I think she's faking it too btw, but you never know. Better be safe than sorry.

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