A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: I told my mother a secret about my sister and feel extremely guilty. long story short my sister blames for a making a huge life decision 3 years ago in which had nothing to do with me. I tried to be supportive in many ways at the time but she has always blamed me for anything that goes wrong in her life. we have been estranged for 3 years and living in the same house as her honestly feels like hell most days. In a fit of anger, frustration and overwhelming emotions of the constant asking from my mother, I finally told my mother the real reason why my sister and I do not speak and are constantly at odds. I regret doing it and feel awful. my mother now understands why we don't get along but i feel she is extremely disappointed in my sisters decisions.This was not my secret to tell and i am feeling guilt and shame having not kept control of my emotions.being someone who prides themselves on being a human diary i am disappointed in myself and feel untrustworthy for having done this. Reply to this Question Share |
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