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I told a secret

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Question - (26 March 2023) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female Brazil age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I told my mother a secret about my sister and feel extremely guilty.

long story short my sister blames for a making a huge life decision 3 years ago in which had nothing to do with me. I tried to be supportive in many ways at the time but she has always blamed me for anything that goes wrong in her life.

we have been estranged for 3 years and living in the same house as her honestly feels like hell most days.

In a fit of anger, frustration and overwhelming emotions of the constant asking from my mother, I finally told my mother the real reason why my sister and I do not speak and are constantly at odds. I regret doing it and feel awful. my mother now understands why we don't get along but i feel she is extremely disappointed in my sisters decisions.

This was not my secret to tell and i am feeling guilt and shame having not kept control of my emotions.

being someone who prides themselves on being a human diary i am disappointed in myself and feel untrustworthy for having done this.

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