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writes:So after 5 years and many ups and downs, she decides she would marry me. She says that after 2 failed marriages that lasted a total of 25 years she is scared.We got into a heated argument recently and she left. I recently talked to her and told she has left Denver and is in Conneticut looking for work and is going to move back and live with her brother and sister-inlaw...is there any chance or anything I can do to try and get her back into my life? Reply to this Question
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (26 June 2009):
 From the information you've given us, it sounds to me like she needs to deal with her own issues before you'll have a stable relationship with her. I suppose there's always a chance, and you keep the dialogue going between you.
Has she seen a therapist or counselor at all? Why so many ups and downs in your relationship? What was the argument about and how or did it make her actually leave town? That seems like an extreme reaction to me. Are you really certain you want an unstable spouse? They're a lot of work!
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