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female
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36-40,
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writes:This is my first time using this, so sorry if I get long winded. I realized I liked my close guy friend 2 years ago. I always had but never pursued it. Well, I asked him out on his birthday this summer. And he didn't really give me an answer. So, I assumed it to be a no and we both started new jobs so we didn't speak for a month. Then he called me and we talked but not about that. He just told me about personal drama last winter and how the only good moments were with me. He also mentioned going out to this place he took me last winter. Then the following weekend we both went to a mutual friend's birthday party but after he was supposed to go somewhere else but didn't and hung out with me and a friend. The whole night he was very flirty with me. Like touching my face, hair and legs. Staring at me. Then he talked to me about was I on the dating scene and what did I like about past guys. Why didnt they work out? Then he said me and him were the same, more commitment types and not dating around types. My friend that came along popped out of nowhere and said my aunt was having a bday party. She was going and he asked can he come too. I thought it was just the booze but he came and gave me a bday card (since mine was the day before). He met my whole family. Well, after continuous happiness and fun, September came and he has not called, texted, imed me...I know he is alive through WORD FUED!...I've known him 7 yrs and I'm so confused...Does he like me? What is going on?
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reader, Koala Bear  +, writes (19 September 2011):
 This guy has more issues to deal with than he can handle. I don't think it is wise to consider a relationship with him until he gets his life together. You mentioned how he was going through some personal drama and remembered only good times with you. It sounds like there is a lot more to this story than you realize. I would be very cautious with him. Look out for him as a friend. His behavioral pattern from distant to clingy to completely gone is a red flag. Be cautious and good luck!
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