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writes: met this lad at a party I hosted 4 weeks ago and he told me he really liked me and would love to be with a girl just like me, I was flattered and decided to take his number and get to know each a bit better. During the week we messaged eachother telling one another how we felt and how happy we were that we'd met. We met up again the following Saturday and we got into quite a deep conversation about what we felt for eachother etc. then he claimed that he had some "issues" which he wanted to sort before we got together. I tried to convince him to tell me but he wouldn't although he really wanted to. So once again we messaged eachother throughout the week and he said some things that really touched me and I really thought we had something and I got the impression he did to. I was so happy that I had met someone that I really thought was the one for me until he text me the other day saying: You don't want me to mess you around so I'll be straight with you. You're the best girl I've met in ages and this is nothing you have done wrong but I don't want a relationship. I really want us to be mates though. x When I received this message I didn't know what to do and for the past week or so I've been crying myself to sleep thinking about him, he means so much to me and I don't want to lose him. I don't want to hurt anymore..what should I do?? Please help!Amie
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reader, bridget +, writes (18 April 2006):
 Im glad to be of assistance hun,
Anytime at all..
Best Wishes
Jacqueline
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reader, xAmiexBaybiix +, writes (18 April 2006):
xAmiexBaybiix is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thankyou so much for your answers you have made me think alot and see that it may not be such a bad idea being friends and just see where it goes. Thanks Ladies!!
Amie xxx
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reader, bridget +, writes (17 April 2006):
Hey there Amie,
First of all I think if this is upsetting you soo much you should call him and be straight with him like he was with you..
Its your turn to be straight.
Explain to him that you felt some connection with him when he was texting you with all thoose nice comments and epilogues..
Make it clear that you feel frustrated, hurt and a bit down what he is now doing...
He must have some explanation to give you as he said that "You're the best girl Id met in ages"
That must mean something... Find out and if he doesnt give give an explanation take it as a confidence builder for your next person who comes along..
Trust me you may not think so now, but there will be more Mr Nice Guys out there..
Best Regards
Jacqueline
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reader, Myobi +, writes (17 April 2006):
 Maybe these "issues" he has are stopping him from wanting a relationship at the moment. If he wont tell you about them they could be anything, even involving past relationships which is causing thise fear now. To be friends with him is better than nothing, so take up his offer of just friends at the moment and see where it goes. If you and him get close as friends and he sees that you are trust worthy, etc, he may decide to start a relationship (although don't pressure him). I'm sure things will work out, Take care x
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