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36-40,
*inja84
writes:I met a woman online and we had a fantastic first date. She is very pretty, funny, kind and we had a lot in common. She asked me out on a 2nd date and texted me afterwards saying she had a great time and she couldn't wait to get together again. We had a 2nd date which I thought went pretty well. We were at the restaurant about 3 hours, playing games and laughing, etc. I then texted her afterwards to say thanks for a wonderful time, hope she got home safe, etc. and she didn't respond. Does this mean she's not interested or should I wait a few days and ask her out? If so, what should I say? Help!
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (21 December 2012):
 YAY good news :) Have a great date!
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (21 December 2012):
 Excellent news OP! thanks for the follow up!
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reader, ninja84 +, writes (21 December 2012):
ninja84 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks everyone! Your advice was spot on. She said she would love to go out again and we have a date next weekend. Not sure why I was so nervous about it. You guys are the best
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2012): It means nothing, you didn't ask a question OP, you just sent sent a sweet 'thank you, that was great' text those don't need to be responded to at all.
Just wait a couple of days and ask her on another date. Call if you like, text if you like but relax, this isn't a sign of anything, not all texts need to be replied to.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (19 December 2012):
call her and ask her out and see what happens.
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reader, Daisy_Daisy  +, writes (19 December 2012):
 Maybe she feels that because she initiated the second date, you should initiate the third. Maybe she doesn't want to appear too keen. I agree with the other advise: call her! Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2012): Call her! Don't text. Texting is fine for some things but not this.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (19 December 2012):
I would call and ask her out again, what do you have to lose?
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