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writes: Mixed signals driving me insane!I've been seeing this girl for a few months now and I really liked her and I thought the liked me back. She even rang me when she met up with her bf. So when she (emotionlessly) split up with this guy, I naturally asked her out a few nights later.I saw her face and asked if it was too soon after other guy an she said yes.Then I hear from one of her friends that she doesn't think she could ever be with me. Her and all her friends tell me I'm better looking (his msn profile proved it), nicer, funnier than him.Instead she just wants us to just be friends. I wasn't actually in the conversation but 2 of her friends confirmed it.Shes been leading me on for months! I don't get it. What's my flaw?? Should I just give up??
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reader, Jazmine420 +, writes (2 November 2005):
hey..im going through the same thing. i just broke up with my bf, and he just broke up with his gf, ive had a crush on him for the longest time. and he comes over we have sex or we dont we cuddle and watch movies, we hold hands..etc but were not dating...were "seeing eachother" and i cant get to the point where i can call him my bf. i know hes not with other girls, and im not seeing other guys...but he knows i like him alot...i know he likes me...i just dont know all his feelings or if he would say yes...if i asked him...but tell her....its simple...she either she likes you THAT WAY or she doesnt...its a simple yes or no...ask her to date you...tell her straight out...u wanna date me or not? its yes or no...and you dont want to be taken for a ride...and that there are other girls who would be happy to date me and we can still be friends.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2005): quite honestly, it sounds to me like this girl took you for quite an emotional ride. people do that sometimes, and so not saying that it's right AT ALL... but they are cruel in unintentional ways. however, take this as this girl did in fact use you.. and (very cheesy)... hold you head up high and know that their is some great woman waiting for you, and time will bring her to your doorstep. oh and you are probably better looking, sometimes people are dumb enough to overlook obvious details.. but know that you will be good enough for someone better.;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2005): seems like this girl doesn't know wot she wants! she obviously didnt want her ex...maybe she's all talk? well dnt giv up jus yet, but mayb it wud b wise to keep ur distance for abit. bcus..who knows maybe sumone bettr will cum along who likes u for just u! good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2005): Talk to her and ask her to be completely straight with you..explain the way it is going you are both going to lose the friendship you have together therefore you want something sorted out so you both know whats going on.
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reader, beth05 +, writes (1 November 2005):
This girl is obviously not meant for you. If she cannot see that you are genuinely interested in her then she is not worth the time. you obviously are being considerate of her feelings and have given her time. Stop chasing after this girl. She may not be the type of person you think she is. Go after someone else who at least shows some positive interest in you.
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