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writes:i just started dating this 23 year old guy about a month ago..I'm 20..we became physical fairly quickly, but no sex...however the 2nd time i gave him oral sex he asked me to swallow...i thought that was very rude and being a big mouthed girl i backed off and acted offended, it didn't phase him, but is there anyone out there who finds that distasteful since its so soon?
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reader, rockinzilla +, writes (20 August 2008):
 well you have a good right of mind to think that was rude its too soon and you should only do that if you want not just because he asked!
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (16 August 2008):
I honestly don't know why you would find that offensive. Obviously you're giving him oral to try to please him and him asking you to swallow was just something he wanted you to do to "enhance" the experience. I really don't think there's a certain kind of etiquette to as to what's tasteful and what isn't (no pun intended) when you're giving a guy oral sex.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (16 August 2008):
 Well, as an older guy who has enjoyed such pleasures since forever, I'll nevertheless side with you that his request is a bit hasty. But the main question I offer is: Does he give as well as want to receive? Good oral must always be mutual, in my opinion. If you are experiencing multiple orgasms while he is voraciously diving your muffin, then he at some point deserves mutual oral satisfaction. But if only you are providing, then your boyfriend is a cad.
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reader, Fasion victims  +, writes (16 August 2008):
 Don't worry what people he thinks of you, respect yourself and don't do anything you don't want to.. If he don't like you for your self respect then its his loss and he will soon realise that you just wasnt ready to do somthing like that as soon as he wanted you to. if you don't want to do that just explain to him and what ever you do, do respect yourself dont try to impress somone else..x
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reader, lexilou +, writes (16 August 2008):
 What difference does it make? If you are prepared to do this to him so soon why shouldnt you swallow. Bit of a double standard going on here!!! x
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