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writes: I'm gonna start my story a few years back, my first day of high school and i see the cutest guy i have ever seen in my whole entire life. He's good looking to boot, not only that but he is extremely nice! I never approached him, because i was 13 and he was 17, but every time i saw him a smile would come across my face and i wouldn't be able to stop thinking about him all day. When the year was over i was quite upset because i thought i would never see him again, and that was the way it was for 2 years. He had gone off to college and didn't even know who he was. I tryed to forget about him, but whenever i would see someone wearing wranglers and a cowboy hat i would think of him. This year my mom got a job, after being a stay at home mom for 8 years, at a local store/resturant. Her boss is really awesome and offered me a job there as soon as i am legally old enough. One day, out of the blue, my mom tells me about her bosses "cute" son who came in for lunch and is extremely nice. But she's my mom, so i didn't really know what her idea of "cute" was so i just nodded and smiled at her comment.About a month later i am going to the store (the one my mom works at) with my mom and brother, and this guy pulls up behind us... i didn't pay attention... my brother is like "hey he's from nelson!" (there was a sticker in his window) if you'd ever been you'd know there are quite a few gay ppl there. At the comment my brother makes the guy pretends to grab his friends butt. My mom starts laughing and then talking to him... when she does i get curious as to who it is so i turn around to look and lo and behold it is the guy i saw my first day of high school... he looks even better. they talk for a few and then my mom comes back to the truck... i ask her who that was, obviously she knew him, and she says "the bosses son!" My heart skipped a beat... I am really close with his parents so i know where he lives now, his phone number, what he does in his spare time... it kind of makes me feel like a stalker.Since then i have been seeing him in the weirdest places, i went on a trip (approx. 4hrs from home) and her was there, while i was camping, at local events, and now i can't stop thinking of him. I think of him when i go to bed and when i wake and it's driving me crazy. I can't conjure enough courage to talk to him. I took pictures at a local rodeo, he rode in it and i have a few pictures of him, my excuse to call him maybe? Am i a stalker? would it be wrong of me to call and ask if he was interested in purchasing the pictures? If so, how would i go about "getting to know him"? would a 19 year old want to date a 15 year old? Please help, it's almost as if he has consumed my life... I've never felt this way about anyone and it's not just some crush either. Some really sweet guys my age have asked me out and i've declined because i can't stop think about this guy. What can i do? Maybe we're meant to be and i just have to take the first step, but how?xoxo Confusion xoxo
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2006): im 15 and i have been through the sort of same thing. a couple of weeks ago i was sat tlkin 2 my m8 at the bus stop and this 18 year old lad came over 2 us and started tlkin 2 my m8 and after tht we got on ok like when i seen him in the street we would say hello 2 each other and then one nite i was on a field nd he was there and he came over and started tlkin 2 me then since tht nite we hung around wif each other all the time but then i started 2 reliese tht i fancied him so i stopped hanging around wif him and when he sed hello 2 me in the street for some reason i started 2 igrone him and now when every i see him i dnt tlk 2 him but i follow him all over the place and when i told my friend bout it she just sed 2 me ur not a stalker ur just in love and tht is the way u are when u are in love but ur will feel so much better if he knows tht u like him so tht is my advice 2 u start tlkin 2 him and then tell him tht u like him and tht u have liked him for ages
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (19 July 2006):
 I think that you need to call him and tell him you have some pictures. Tell him he can have them if he wants and mention he knows your Mum. When you have done that you can arrange to meet him somewhere to give him the pics, somewhere non-threatening, and see if there is chemistry between you so you can get a true measure of him. After all you don't know him so really it could just be lust!
Play it slowly and you never know. Enlist your Mum for support!!
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