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writes:I met this guy through my friend. She used to take me along to band practice with her sometimes, and I met him there.The first time I went we didn't really speak much. He's a quiet person, but he was happy to reciprocate when I tried to talk to him. I caught him staring at me a lot, and whenever we were talking and caught each other's eyes, he had this like...warm and affectionate kind of look? Yeah.The second time I went to practice it was pretty much the same, except he was a bit more playful. He started a tickle war and teased me in a nice way.The next time I went to band practice, nothing really happened, but he asked me if I wanted to come to his afterwards, and I did. He spent quite a while playing with my hair while we were watching tv, and I remember him lying over me. I had a burn on my arm, and I'd caught it on something, it wasn't bleeding that badly, but he made a show of getting the first aid box and cleaning it and wrapping it up for me. He played me my favourite song on the guitar and sang to me, as well :)I didn't hang around with him after that, my friend stopped inviting me to band practice, and I didn't want to press her too hard, because I didn't want to make it obvious I liked him, she liked him at the time, so.I started a new college this September, and he goes there. I wanted to speak to him but I felt awkward cause I hadn't seen him in so long. I catch him staring at me in the common room all the time, but he looks away quickly whenever I do catch him. I've noticed he's always sat somewhere I can see him, as well. Or somewhere he can see me, at least.I don't know if this means anything either, but whenever I walk past him I feel a really strong...I would say connection, I don't know how else to word it. Could it just be because we used to be friends?Do you think I should try and start talking to him again? I still like him quite a lot. Reply to this Question
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reader, softsyrup +, writes (12 December 2011):
Go for it!
From what you've said he's into you. He wouldn't have bothered in the first place otherwise. Your friend obviously stopped inviting you to band practice because he liked you.
Go and talk to him. What have you got to lose? And from the sounds of it, it wouldn't be hard to avoid him at college if he wasn't interested, which I don't think is likely anyway.
Just play it cool, ask him how he is, act like you're interested and wait for him to ask you back to his again!
Good luck =)
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