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writes:hey guys!!I am 20years old and have just got my first girlfriend, she was my friend before for about four years. Four years ago when we first met she told me she liked me but at the time i was arrogant n thort i could do better because i had other girls telling me they liked me. however i regret this as i was to picky when it came to girls i dnt know why, but now im 20years old have only just managed to get my first girlfriend, i havent even had much experience with girls especially on the physically aspect. In that space of four years she has manage to get 2 boyfriends both of which cheated on her and her longest relationship was 2months, she has also had a fling and kissed a couple of random guys. i know this may sound silly bt i feel abit jealous that she is more experience then me. she has taken some of the guys to the bedroom n then furthest shes been is dry sex and breast touching.furthermore i was the first that she let finger her as i broke her in as she was bleeding a bit thats what happens rite?. i feel insecure, inadequate, jealous, regret that i havnt done much in my past wish i had taken my opportunities when i had them. i have been her longest relationship and she has told me she has never felt like this for anyone before, and she is startng to fall for me and she has given me her heart.Every time i think about her past which has been everyday for the past 3 and a half months ive been with her, i get this burning feeling in my stomach and i keep visualising her being with those other guys n them kissing her and touching her its horrible how can i get rid of this someone help????? i just want be happy with her thats all n jus live in the present bt ive been trying soo hard to get rid of this feeling and forget her past!! i want this relationship to work as it is my first proper one and also because i think this girl something special and i wont find another like heri think this girl is tooooo good4me!! and she deserve better then me!!im always scared that im going to hurt her in some way i dnt want to!is there any guys who have been through this and can help me or even girls????can someone help me get rid of these feelingsss please!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2007): Dude your 20! what the hell seize the day. If she really feels that way about you, experience doesnt matter. You shouldn't be jealous she has been cheated on, she knows what it feels like. look at what you've got you want her she wants you, nothing else matters. She's likes you alot she is not going to care how much experience you've got.
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