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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Ok, so earlier in the year a 'friend' came up to see me after ages of not seeing each other, the thing is I told her that i had feelings for her and basically I don't think the feelings were returned when I told her. So when she came up to see me I wasnt expecting anything, so by the end of the night she was holding my hand and basically if i had not of had to get out of the car then it would have gone furthar.So I want to know what to do now, because she is coming back to see me and I dont know what to do, because we havent spoke about what happened at all, what would someone do in this situation?Basically I havent stopped thinking about her!Thank you for your help guys! Reply to this Question
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reader, DV1  +, writes (22 May 2007):
 Don't get your hopes up yet. A lot of girls I know like to hold hands with guys that they're not even interested in. It's more a sign of comfort with the other person than anything. When she comes up, tell her that one way or the other, you really need closure on the subject. If she can't give you any response, tell her that you need to not see her until she's figured things out. Otherwise, you're going to be torturing yourself every time you see her.
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