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writes: I have been dating a girl for over a year now. I think she is cheating on me with someone else. They do have "some" history. I tryed talking ro uer and all she says is forget about it or just says nothings going on. I still think shes hiding something... What should I do? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Sugarbuns +, writes (20 March 2011):
Is this just paranoia on your part, or are there lengthy unexplained absenses in her day, when she's not where she says she'll be. You haven't given us much to go on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionGood ideal, ill try.
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reader, fishdish +, writes (19 March 2011):
is the only evidence you have of something going on that there was history between her and another man? if so, that is not enough to reasonably think there's cheating going on.
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reader, Capri2 +, writes (19 March 2011):
Well. I depends on how sure you are she's cheating on you. I reckon you aren't certain, but you are suspicious enough as to not believe her.You have two options, I guess, you leave her and move on without more evidence. Or you set a trap to discover what's going on.The second option is better as you don't dump her with a suspicion only. But you have to set a trap carefully because failing to do so will make you look silly. Or worse, you could end up thinking there is nothing going on when it actually is.You seem to know who the guy she could be cheating on you with is. So maybe it is not that hard to make a little research and know for sure.
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