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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: I Have really Strong feelings for this guy David, i told him i like him, and he said he doesn't want a relationship until the summer. But he doesnt know how strong my feelings are, and i am scared too tell him how strong they are. I don't know how he feels towards me, whenever i see him, i feel really happy, and i dont want to leave his side, he ask's me for hugs and kisses, and thats the only time he shows liking for me, and sometimes he looks at me shyly, i don't know what is going on with him, i have liked him like this for about 1 year, and it's crushing me that i'm not with him, i have no idea what to do, can you help me ??
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2007): I think you have a major crush, and at your age that is pretty common, but don't stress and obsess over what this guy is thinking or what he means....simply ask him. I think you are way too young to be "with" a guy. Enjoy your youth and make lots of friends of both sexes and do activities that you enjoy where you can make friends. The more active and engaged you are in your own life, your own interests, the less clingy and desperate your feelings will be for this boy. Try to learn to be emotionally independent, where you are happy with him or without him....it may seem hard to do, but with a little self control you will get there, be more at ease with yourself and a whole lot happier. Hang in there!
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