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writes: I am 17 and have known this girl for about 5 years. We have dated before but recently I have found out that I love her, like seriously love her! She has an on and off b/f and I went round to her house the other day. We kissed and things. The next day she said she was willing to start to be my partner! Earlier this morning she told me that she didn't want to be with me and this other boy, she was saying thing like 'I love you' and everything, but then suddenly changed her mind round his house due to work! I see her every ay and the other kid left college and now it's just me and her! I have poured my heart out in a letter to give to her 2 months. Please tell me another thing I can do to help my chances! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2005): Sounds like this girl does not know what she wants to do. You are probably better off without her. You need to just stay friends life is to short to be stuck with a person you love that sounds like will not love you back the way you feel. You are 17 and have a whole lot of road out there to explore. You need to move on and let her figure out what she really wants.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2005): ok i am a girl who recently did that to a guy not knowingly and from experience she has confused feelings about you. and i am not sure if she is actually ready for commitment! you need to sit her down and talk straight out to her. sure letters are sweet but don't mean much if its not face to face! i personally picked the guy who i dissed and well now i am engaged so i mean i think that it really could help you out hon! i hope this helps alittle! goodluck
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reader, HappyTimeHarry +, writes (22 May 2005):
Just be yourself, man. Either she chooses you or not, but don't agonize over it. One thing you could do is get cool with her friends. Her friends are probably a big part of her life, and they can tell you what she likes and doesn't like in a bf. They can also tell you what she doesn't like about her bf now. I'm tellin you, her friends are the key. They can help you much more than anyone else. One more time, be yourself.
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