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36-40,
anonymous
writes: I have been with a man for five years now and love him very dearly. I have been with him since my junior year in high school. Before him I was with a man for five years off and on. Well recently I have found myself thinking about my ex and my heart almost aching for him and I have no idea where this has come from becuase I broke it off with him over six years ago. I have no idea where he stands becuase we have not talked. I don;t know what this is and what to do. HELP!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2009): Remember an X is an X for a reason. Sometimes I still think about my X and we broke up 8 years ago. Sometimes I miss him, he was good to me. But I always remember that there is a reason we are NOT together. You should remember the same thing.
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reader, 2old4this +, writes (31 January 2009):
Your current relationship might be missing something recently. It's making you want for the old days when life was probably simpler. Maybe you felt more loved then I dont know. Try to find that spark with your current guy again. I wouldnt try to look up the old guy anyway, because i'm betting he will not be the same you remember. They never are, I learned that myself. It may be a time for you to move forward with what you have,... or make a change. Good luck.
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