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writes:I hope I dont insult ppl in the process of asking if I'm being insulting XDTo the overweight community: (ja im sure ive already insulted everyone)All my life ive been really tiny... high metabolism or w/e but ive been kinda skinny... And I was wondering, has anyone overweight ever been called "cuddly" or something to that affect... is that rude? Just wondering... cuz its been on the tip of my tongue with this guy cuz i find him so.... comfortable... but im afraid he'd take that as: she thinks im fat. .... x.x so yeah... is that something better left unsaid?
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reader, T.R. +, writes (14 February 2012):
Yeah, it's all in the context and/or way it's said... I'm usually a little on the overweight side and my girlfriend calls me cuddly and "teddy bear" fairly often... I know the way she means it from the tone of her voice (or from the fact that she's cuddling up to me when she says it) and it's not the least bit insulting...
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reader, TrancedRhythmEar  +, writes (14 February 2012):
 Nah not offensive.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (14 February 2012):
 we used to say I was fluffy when I was fat.
if you mean it in a positive way and you say it to him while you are happily pillowed on him cuddling I think it's fine...
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reader, Dear Mandy  +, writes (14 February 2012):
 LOL, most men would not find that insulting at all, but if your worried he might, then just say I feel so comfortable and safe in your big strong arms....or words to that effect. I find the words ( your not fat your healthy) more insulting lol. I myself am slim, but I have also been over weight, when I was told I looked healthy ( i know weird right) I got so pissed off I started the gym again hahaha, who knows maybe if you tell him his cuddly in a oh so cute way it might get him down the gym too :)but if you love the way he is make sure you tell him that too, at the end of the day it IS what is on the inside that counts.
happy valentines day :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2012): I feel so safe and womanly in your arms. Comfortable, like you were tailored made for me to fit in them. :)
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