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writes:Hi guys, I am in a fairly new relationship but I cant seem to stop thinking of one problem. I think he is still attached to his ex. Not the most recent one, but an older one who he had dated for 4 years. I think the reason they broke up was all on her, and since then (he even has said this) all of his other girlfriends have not been serious because he loves and cares about that one girlfriend the most. Also, they still talk every once in a while and I get so upset because I am afraid she will want to get back with him and he will. I just dont want to get really hurt. Any advice? Should I just ignore it, or say something?
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (14 May 2006):
 This is an instance where there is absolutely no point in sitting back and waiting for something to happen. Why sit and wait for her to come and get her man back/him to go back to her? ASK HIM! Just come out with it and ask him 'Are you serious about me, or are you still in love with her?'. If you do not ask you will never know. If he answers no he isn't then at least your mind will partly be put at rest. If he answers yes, then you ahve to make a decision if you want to second best in this guys lovelife or not?
Good luck.
Honesty is the best policy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2006): i think you should to talk to him about his feelings towards you and where your relationship is going, it might hurt him if you mention his ex so i'll leave that desicion to you, but either way if you upset about it talk to him, don't argue or anythin just hav a quiet word i'm sure evrything will turn out ok!
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