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writes:Ok. So my best friend(were practically inseperable) showed me this blog the other day. We were remarking on how it sounds just like our school. It consits of a group the writer calls "them", the girls she describes sound just like a few of the girls in our grade we dont always get along with. Then I read about another feature of the blog. A girl with the codename "sweetie". It said some pretty hurtful things! And it sounded like my "friend" wrote them about me!!! I feel absolutley broken, as soon as i read it i told her it sounded like me and that i was crying. She said that it was some other girl, just a coincidence and that she wished she never showed it to me. The evidence is clear, she wrote this and i dont know if she will admit it! I want to stay friends with her...i think, what should i do?!?!?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2009): if she is your real friend she would tell you if she wrote it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionMy sister helped me. I sent her an email saying that even though she "didnt" (i didnt actually use parentheses but im hoping she will fess up!) she may be upset with me, if she feel this way then she can always tell me because i care about her, im hoping this works...ill let ya know!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI guess i do but shes in almost all my classes, IM GOING TO HER PARTY THIS WEEKEND, and i dont just not want to go, i helped her plan it i MADE her birthday present with my hands.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2009): wow, teenagers can be so mean. I'm sorry. well- your trust has been broken, and she knows it. I might remain friends with her, but not close. If she's truly sorry (and quits the denial) then it will take time for her to gain back your trust. As others have said, try making plans with other friends for now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionBut how can i just stop being friends with someone im so close to...i guess thats how she got me i was vulnerable...
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthere is no way she didn't write it, i have the evidence i cant help but stare at it. there are stories that i remember happening, there are people with nicknames that relate to them or their names, she is a notorious creative writer. She lies to me and tricks me into teling her things. She is making me feel guilty, telling me i have no faith. Our relationship is complicated, but i dont beleve her, she did it and she knows it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionShe freaked out when i accused her of writing it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2009): talk to her on her own..invite her for lunch and ask her outright if she wrote it. ul soon know by her reaction
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