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writes:i am a shy 16 year old girl but i have had bfs in the past. however this guys different. i really like him and a do believe we're perfect for each other. hes 17 and learning to drive just now, he thinks the world of me and that just makes me feel wonderful. we talk constant on msn and the fone and speak to him alot in person bt not since we admitted to liken each other. he keeps askin me to go out places with him but i get nervous and always have an excuse. am going to the pics with him and his pals on sunday though and i a actually petrified of whats going to happen. i don't think he would kiss me infront of his pals but hat if he does? what do i do? am just so shy around him now but i really like him. i want this to work but i need advice on what to do to get over my shyness and build a relationship.thanks xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2008): If you keep going out with them, you'll get more and more comfortable and more used to your environment. Slowly but surely you will be able to do more stuff with him.
You just need to be yourself, and its okay being a bit shy. Just try and extend yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for your comments. i went out with him last night and he wouldnt let me go and he knew i was really nervous. there was three of us out and i was pretty comfortable but got shy when he kept huggin me infront of his pal. his pal kept hintin he liked me and was tryin to leave us alone but thats when i got nervous and caught up with his pal too. but thanks for the comments guys any more would be greatful.xo.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2008): You just need to bite the bullet and do it. I'm shy too and I just have to force myself to do stuff.
So what he kisses you infront of his mates?! You love him. You'd prefer him to do that than not surely?! If you speak all the time on MSN, on the phone and stuff what could be different. Besides its the pictures its not like you need to talk constantly. Just tell him beforehand your going to be nervous/shy/quiet - whatever(!) - and then just go for it.
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reader, Megaaan. +, writes (11 July 2008):
 Hiya (:I'm Meg and i've been in esactly the same situation that you're in! Yes, your "date" will be awquard at first but then as you get further into it then you'll become more comfortable and confident around eachother. Personally I found it ALOT easier when it was just two of us than with his friends there but on the other hand it helped his friends gave us things to talk about. When you're with him just be calm and make sure that you don't let the convosation slip away from things that are comfortable talking about. Good luck hun! x
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