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I think I'm ugly and I'm afraid of sex, what should I do?

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Question - (2 April 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 6 April 2008)
A male United States age 30-35, *iCiFun writes:

Ok, so I think im ugly and, I don't think any girl would like me. I'm afraid of sex and losing my virginity, but I want to because I feel I should as a guy.

What should I do?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2008):

If u dnt want to have sex then dnt just b/c ur a guy doesn't mean you have to prove nething to neone i dnt get it wats the deal with guys who think that to be cool you have to get laid thats so notttt true and it doesn't matter what you look like its wats on the inside that counts and you need to LOVE YOURSELF before you can ever love neone!!!!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2008):

Only have sex when YOU are good and ready and stop being pressurised into it by others. You are a beautiful person so stop worrying. A saying that always stays with me, YOU ARE A PRETTY GIRL, BUT AN UGLY PERSON, and that was something said about a famous film star years ago because deep down she wasnt a nice person. You are unique, you are beautiful and you will meet someone who sees you for the lovely person that you are, so get out there and enjoy life to the full.

take care

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A female reader, kat113091 United States +, writes (3 April 2008):

You don't have to loose your virginity to be cool and that's not a guys duty. My boyfriend is still a virgin and I love him no matter what and he's not even that good looking but his personality is amazing... at times... its not about the looks or the experience, it's about emotions and love. You need to realize that or you will never get laid. You need to be sensitive about girls feelings if they know that you just want to get laid then they won't want you. And one more thing... you need to love yourself before anyone else can.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2008):

no you shouldnt do it cos everyone else is, thats wrong, you need to wait for the right time and it will come naturally when you want to have sex. and it really doesnt matter wether your ugly or not, its who you are from the inside that counts, dont ever go for someone who likes you for your looks, go for someone who knows you properly and likes your personality xxxxxxxxx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2008):

OMG what is with you guys and feeling that becasue your a guy you need to get laid !!! it's ridiculous !!! IF you don't want to then don't . don't let your little guy buddies tell you you have to or let any girl pressure you !! And I'm sure your not ugly !!! I'm sure girls like you!!! And if you ever do decide to have sex make sure you really do want to do it and it's not that you feel you have to !!! ok?

I hope this helped ... Message me anytime !! I'm always here to help!!:)

*~VG~*

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