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writes:Hi, I really need I help I recently fell for a boy I met over the internet he was 18 and I'm 15, but things didn't really work out. One minute its on, then its off, but I think I fell in love with him. It's really hard to get over him and he feels the same. How can I get over him :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2008): Have you ever met? Firstly, I wouldn't advise meeting someone online as you never know who you are actually talking to. Anyway, I know thats not the point so, if you find it hard talking to him, delete all ways you have of communicating with him, his number, e-mail address etc. If you have pictures of him, get rid of those too.
You need to spend a lot of time with your friends. With a good friend by your side you can get over anything, anyone.
Lots of girlie days are needed, and when you're up for it, try talking to new boys (In person would be a safer bet). I know it's hard, but you'll get there. Just be strong. x
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2008): You don't say whether you ever met.
If not,then it should be easier to get over him because you won't have all the associations you would with someone 'live'. You won't see him around, have things that remind you of him, see his friends etc.
Comfort yourself with the thought that he might not have been, in real life, what you thought he was.
Why not try finding someone some other way? You've loads of time, don't need to have a boyfriend so young anyway. It's easy to think you are in love when really it's just excitment and attraction. Real love goes deeper and involves knowing someone inside out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2008): Online relationships are difficult and can be risky, sometimes if someone as young as yourself has never experienced love then they can get carried away when someone they have met online acts flirtatiously or asks them out. It is likely that the same thing has happened here. I would recommend keeping away from the site, at least until these feelings pass, it is much better to find guys that you like in real life rather than over the internet as you can get to know them much better. Hope this helps x
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reader, cuteblonde124  +, writes (2 November 2008):
 First hun it is never safe to meet someone over the internet, but that isn't the issue. The thing i always do to get over a guy is to first have a movie night with my closes friends. make cookies and stay up all night watching funny movies. second start talking to other guys. your single so its okay to look! he will still be on your mind for a lil bit, but before you know it someonebetter will come along/
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